Five women stood near a television tuned to a news station at the gym, but only one was doing the talking. She was on a roll. She was sharing her commentary on the events and stories flickering across the screen behind them, pausing only to glance and gesture up at the news to know which topic to comment on next.
Sarcasm, generalizations, and exaggerations punctuated her words. She didn’t seem to notice the strained expressions on the faces of two of the women or the deep sighs of another. Instead she focused on the woman nodding her head in agreement with every statement she made.
Have you ever witnessed a situation like this? Have you been in one either as the talker, a listener, or maybe even both at different times? In conversations like these, honor is often a distant thought when it could be a necessary guide.
Is honor something you seek to give or get? Is it commanded or conditional? Our understanding of honor will shape our words and actions in all kinds of circumstances and relationships. With just a cursory glance at our culture, we see honor often talked about and frequently demanded but rarely clearly defined. Instead, it is most often conditionally or personally defined.
But no matter your definition, we can most likely agree that honor is often lacking—both in honorable words and actions and in giving honor to others. In attitudes, conversations and comments we hear, posts and reposts we see, and (getting real personal) in some of my own gut-reactions and thoughts, we all need the chance to look to God’s Word to understand what He has to say about honor. To give honor and to live honorably, we need God’s wisdom and Truth.
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