Just a few years in the past we had a possum drawback at our home. We determined to set a small animal lure so we might seize after which safely launch the critter into a pleasant wooded space far sufficient away that he wouldn’t discover his approach again to our yard. So, we positioned our lure and went to mattress. The subsequent day we found that we didn’t have an opossum drawback in any respect. We had a skunk drawback. If you have got ever got down to catch an opossum however as an alternative snagged a skunk, you recognize it’s a pungent state of affairs to be in.
I worry that a lot of our children are being baited into the traps which were set by a secular and ungodly world, and the result actually stinks.
Statistics and anecdotal proof each recommend that the lives, values, and pursuits of “Christian” children and households are largely indistinguishable from these of their unbelieving neighbors.
Research gathered in a partnership between Lifeway Kids and Lifeway Research and reported within the e book, Nothing Less by Jana Magruder, reveals that 25% of Christian mother and father stated that their prime objective was for his or her children to develop as much as be completely satisfied. 22% stated their prime want was for his or her children to achieve success. 19% stated they needed their children to be “good people.” 17% stated their emphasis was on their children’ schooling.
Only 9% of the Christian mother and father surveyed stated that their prime precedence was for his or her children to develop as much as be godly.
Don’t miss that stat. Less than 10% of 2000 “Christian” mother and father surveyed have the objective of godliness as the highest precedence for his or her kids. That reply is each unhappy and revealing. Is it really a shock that so many children from believing households stroll away from their religion once they go away dwelling?
Please hear me, there may be nothing unsuitable with wanting happiness and success and schooling and good-ness for our children—I would like all of these issues for my very own kids—however every of these issues have to be outlined and pursued within the context of the preeminent objective of godliness.
The Word warns us of the stink we’ll expertise if we don’t practice our youngsters to be godly. In the absence of a top-level pursuit of godliness the world will train our children to be one thing fully the other.
In his second letter to Timothy, Paul cautions his protege that, “Hard times will come in the last days. People will be lovers of self, lovers of money, boastful, proud, demeaning, disobedient to parents, ungrateful, unholy, unloving, slanderers, without self-control, brutal, without love for what is good, traitors, reckless, conceited, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God, holding to a form of godliness but denying its power.” 2 Timothy 3:1-9
Read that listing once more.
It might have been written yesterday to explain individuals at this time. It outlines the traits that our tradition commends, and that our children are being conditioned to hunt and rejoice.
We should be cautious what narratives our ministries perpetuate. Our kids don’t should be taught how essential they are; they should be proven how holy God is. They don’t should be taught the best way to fit-in with a godless tradition; they should perceive that they don’t seem to be of this world. They don’t should be taught the best way to mix in; they should be outfitted with braveness to face up and to face out.
As ministers of the gospel now we have a accountability to push in opposition to the priorities of our tradition and spur-on children and fogeys to chase after godliness earlier than anything. The chief objectives of a kid’s life should not be his happiness, success, reputation, fame, schooling, well being, wealth, or social standing. The chief objectives should all the time be his redemption and right-relationship with God.
Mark asks a really pertinent query in Mark 8:36. “what shall it profit a man, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul?”
Thankfully, I didn’t lure a skunk in my cage. Once I used to be conscious of the actual state of affairs, I used to be in a position to take away the lure earlier than I caught a residing stink bomb. My prayer is that we, as ministry leaders, could have the braveness and foresight to determine and disarm the traps that Satan has set in opposition to our youngsters. May we assist them to have eyes to see the risks of operating after the unsuitable issues, and direct them to as an alternative chase after Jesus with all of their power.
Chuck Peters is Director of Operations for Lifeway Kids. Before his function at Lifeway, Chuck had an intensive profession in tv and video manufacturing. He is a 3-time Emmy Award Winning producer, director, author and host. A graduate of Columbia Bible College, Chuck, and his spouse, Cris, have served vocationally & voluntarily in Student and Children’s Ministry for a few years. They have 4 superb kids: Tally (21), Tristen (20), Tyson (14) and Tate (11).